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Old 12-28-2021   #7
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Default Re: English VA for Matahiko Nekota announced

Originally Posted by The J.M.P. View Post
Wasn't trying to be rude, I'm just new to how this site works, that's all, and just to be clear, as someone with autism like myself, I don't have the right words to say things correctly
That's all good to know - I'm on the spectrum myself. However, there is one little detail that should be addressed here, as it can lead to problems, and I'm sure has done so in the past. In my experience, when two people on the spectrum clash, it seems to be a case of the unstoppable force meets the immovable object. Basically, I know how things are done here, and while I'm willing to make allowances for first-time slip-ups (which are perfectly understandable), I won't back down if someone continuously flouts the rules. You, meanwhile, have your own idea of how to do things, and may not understand why those are suddenly unacceptable, therefore you won't back down. If there isn't some give and take, things can go downhill very fast from there. Sadly, site rules are pretty clear on things, so after the first couple of times, most of the give has to be on your end. It may not seem fair, but it helps show you have respect and integrity, which is a good way towards people taking you seriously on this site.

I hope this was helpful for you. Happy Holidays.
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